Deep down you’ve known it for some time. The urge for an adventure with a man has been growing. Recently you secretly kissed in a club. It was even more exciting and delicious than you hoped. To some it may be just a kiss, but to you it was much more than that. It was proof that you want to come out of the closet. But how?

Our companions are happy to help you. They know how difficult it can be. The uncertainty of others reactions. Maybe you have a wife and children. How will they respond? Our companions can empathize with you perfectly and help you with the right tips and tricks. They talk openly about what you can expect.

And if you want to gain some practical experience during or after your date, that is of course possible.

Are you looking for support in other ways to talk openly about your sexuality? We would like to refer you to the following authorities:

There are several helplines and organizations in the Netherlands that are specifically aimed at supporting men and women who want to come out. Here are some of the most important:

* COC Netherlands: The COC is the oldest lgbtqia+ interest organization in the Netherlands. They provide information, advice and support to anyone who has questions about their sexual orientation or gender identity. You can contact COC Netherlands via their website or local departments.

* Gay & Lesbian Switchboard: This helpline provides telephone support and advice to people with questions about homosexuality, bisexuality, and transgender topics. They can be reached by telephone and e-mail.

GGD: The Municipal Health Service (GGD) often also offers specific help and support in the field of sexual health and lgbtqia+ matters.

* Jong & Out: Jong & Out is an organization for young people up to the age of 18 who are or are concerned with lgbtqia+ . They regularly organize meetings and activities for young people to meet and support each other.
Online platforms: There are several online platforms and forums where people can share their experiences and find support from others going through the same situation.

* In addition, many municipalities and cities offer local initiatives and support groups for lgbtqia+ people. If you are looking for help in coming out, it is advisable to contact one of these organizations or inquire with your local council about the support available.

Remember that you are not alone and there is help available for you through this process.