9 key aspects to consider regarding BDSM

BDSM is more than just physical; it’s a profound journey of body and mind. Let’s explore what happens within us during these experiences. Communication is crucial. Discussing desires and limits before and after a scene fosters deep intimacy and trust. It’s a conversation that strengthens connections. Hypnosis plays a central role in BDSM. Through repetition, […]
I had sex with a straight guy

I was sure he was straight I think no one walks past an ‘off limits’ sign without wondering what’s behind the door. There’s something about the forbidden that gets the imagination going. And mine was racing that night at our house party, as we mingled over drinks and I met his eyes. I don’t even […]
Sex with HIV: 8 things to consider

Being intimate with someone who has HIV requires understanding and care. Here’s what you need to consider for a safe and respectful experience. #HIVAwareness #SafeSex What’s a viral load? It’s the amount of HIV in blood. Managing it with treatment is crucial for the health of the person with HIV and for reducing transmission risk. […]
I lost my virginity to an escort

I allowed myself to say I like men in my 30s When I was younger, I pictured losing my virginity would be something deeply romantic. Definitely with a person I loved, a long term partner, maybe even the person I’d spend the rest of my life with. And that is how it went, the first […]
I am dating an escort

I was jealous I never thought I’d date someone who had such an unconventional career. I’m crazy into him but at the same time when we’re together I can’t help but wonder about the other guys in his day! #yourstories #jealousy Jealousy was always there. Kissing him, I’d think, “Is that his cologne, or a […]
Gay escort bloopers

Gay escort bloopers A lot of planning goes into working as an escort. Bookings with different clients, balancing a life with the potentially unsociable hours of my job, and staying on top of regular STI checks… but some things you can’t prepare for! #escortbloopers It was his first time with a gay man The night […]